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I have issues with marriage and divorce, mainly because I don't believe divorce should happen as often as it does (ie. Kim Kardashian).

However, I would marry someone if they needed to stay in the country :3

And as for your situation in the UAE... I'm really sorry :(
Because it sucks.
Post by Shepardess » Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:00 pm
i wont do that,hihihii will marry the one i love
Post by PSP » Fri Feb 03, 2012 9:49 am
If I liked that person as a friend, and could stand to be with them then I would marry for convenience.
Post by Eloquentx » Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:26 am
I thought people usually get married because they're truly in love. I've never been in your situation but I wouldn't marry someone just because I'm struggling financially, I'd try to get help, friends/family. Anyone. But I wouldn't marry especially if I'm not in love with that person I see no point in it. Just my opinion. smile
Post by Desacred » Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:32 am

No, I only marry for love. Because if I do end up marrying someone rich I know I will end up cheating on them because I do not love them. girl
Post by Bonita » Sun Feb 05, 2012 3:09 am
i married my best friend so he wouldnt have to leave me in the states when he gets stationed over seas.

bad idea! just sayin lol

dont marry anyone for anything unless you truly love them!
Post by autumnskyy1 » Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:32 pm
I wouldn't.
I see marriage as something meaningful and romantic. /hopeless romantic
I mean, if I had to pick...rich guy, but isn't all that I want him to be and that he's and asshole. OR. A poor guy who's heart is made of gold and makes me feel extremely happy and that he's all that I wanted in a guy...
I'd choose the poor guy.

Come on, marriage is not there for your financial needs or just to help someone say in the country, it's meant to be there to become one and become loving partners against the world. ;____;
Post by Squishy » Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:38 pm


You know you want me.
Yeah, I would get married for reasons other than love as long as the other person and I were on the same page about it (Kind of like Chuck and Larry style). I think marriage is just a piece of paper that can make it possible or easier to get certain benefits. Marriage doesn't prove that a relationship is good or healthy, and it doesn't prove that the people love each other. Marriage wasn't even originally about love to begin with. People always used to marry for money or to combine land. So I don't know why people get so romantic about it now or spend so much money on it. I think everyone should be able to get married because everyone deserves the benefits of marriage. But other than that, I don't think it's a big deal.
Post by Llewellyn » Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:45 pm
i've offered. if i married my boyfriend, he'd get more money benefits, and we'd be able to afford a place of our own and not have to live with roommates. but he says he doesn't want to do it that way. he wants to marry me the right way, with a wedding and a ring, and not done in some civil court.
Post by Hound of Leithkorias » Tue Feb 07, 2012 8:56 pm

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I'd never marry for convenience. I'm someone who loves to know the truth, and loves to tell the truth. To marry someone I don't actually love is terrifying to me. xD Although I can certainly see why other people would marry for convenience. Especially if they have kids and don't have enough money to take care of them. That would actually probably be the most smartest choice.
Post by C i e l » Fri Feb 10, 2012 12:31 am
I wouldn't marry because it makes it easier. I almost did give in to something like this, but I realized far before the planning that it was a stupid move on my part. I'm not the sort of person that could do it and be happy.

I could see myself married to my boyfriend, but I'm in absolutely no hurry to rush this relationship. Rushing, in my experience, only makes things fall apart.
Post by IshokuOsero » Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:31 am
No, I only marry for love.
Post by Twisted Rainbow Insanity » Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:48 pm

~ The Insanity is here. ~
I would prefer to be in love with the person I marry. But I think I would marry someone for benefits such as financial stability. The money would allow me to help my mother live a better life, and afford to have my brother provided for for the rest of his life since he has mental problems.
And it would allow me to do what I've always dreamed, to travel the world without worry of money and costs.

And as long as I could have children of my own and raise them in a good environment, I would certainly do it.
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no,i will not do that just for convenience,i will do this because i feel it...
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I don't think i would.
Marriage is a big thing, and since my parents got divorced, it got me into thinking i have to be more serious about it.

But if i really wanted to marry the person, just not yet, then i might've done it.

And i don't really get it, is it illegal for you guys to live together if you aren't married? o__o
Post by Student council » Mon Feb 13, 2012 12:48 pm


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He'll turn bald before time. •`n´•
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