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at this point in my life i would say no. not that i have any problem with people my age having kind but i'm only 20 (21 in january) and i just don't think i could handle the kids if the relationship became serious. My mom get into a relationship with a woman who hates me to this day because i took her art studio for my room when we moved in. It was a three bed room house and two were already taken where the hell did the idiot think i was going to sleep. The whole thing made me realize that i could never get into a relationship with kids involved until i was better equipped to handle them. it just wouldn't be fair to them.
It would definitely be a turn-off for me, considering that i am a lesbian.. so if they had a kid i'd have to wonder if they were just.. "sick of men" for the time being because of the stuff they went through with the child's father, or honestly into me.. i love children and would like to have some of my own someday.. but it WOULD really complicate things since you have to try to win over the mother / child at the same time.. XP
I would. I'm good with kids so it wouldn't be an instant turn off.
Well, I'm already married and neither of us want children... so that pretty much answers that: no. I really do not see myself being a human-parent, nor have I ever liked dealing with other people's children because it always makes me feel awkward, especially since they have their own teachings and rules already in place.
I probably would not, but if I liked the person enough...who knows?
I feel it depends on how much I like the person and how they interact with their child. I know it takes time before a parent would introduce their child to their date, but I would start to wonder if I was not introduced after a considerable amount of time.
No I couldnt, I dont even want any. I can only stand my little cousins for ten minutes then Im ready to give them back.
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Considering I am 20 dating someone with a kid would be odd, so no; however, if I was say, late 20s or early 30s, the idea is feasible.
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HECK YEA! I have a kid and they have a kid, it sounds perfect. It's just the matter of whether or not the children like each other. I won't marry a guy if my DD doesn't like them, much less date them.
i'd be less likely to consider marriage with someone who has children. it feels like a violation of a pre-established relationship to me. i myself would be uncomfortable if my mother got married to a man who had children as well. the idea of step-family is just so unappealing to me for some reason. it's not like i have anything against those kinds of familial bonds with others, but i wouldn't want that for myself.
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personal right now no. I don't think its a wise decision to have a kid at my age and i don't want the person i'm dating to be tied by one either. I think as i get older its something i'm going to have to live with.
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I think I would consider it. I think it might depend on the kid's age though. Because being a kid of divorced parents since I was a toddler, I know how it's really rough on kids to have new people in their life. It always made me feel the other person was taking my parent away from me.
So yeah.. I think it would just depend on the current situations.
So yeah.. I think it would just depend on the current situations.
