I've never understood why someone would do something nasty like that and therefor never had.
And what I've read otherwise on the subject didn't sound appealing to me. Fortunately I need not understand why people do such sordid things, being an asexual.
I find sexting quite...stupid to be honest and the action of desperate people. I don't mind a few flirty text messages every now and again but I don't like texting in the first place so I don't want to sit and type out "dirty things" back and forth. It's like...agh, if you want to bang then just bang. I don't want to read about it nor text it, it's not the same as real sex.
Same goes for dirty pictures. Once or twice...fine, playful. But to constantly ask for pictures or send them it's like...big whoop. Tits, a dick...yawn. Seen it already. Show me in person and I might care.
honestly, i would send them to a boyfriend/girlfriend if there was a way to know they wouldn't show anyone. i wouldn't trust them enough not to show friends, especially after a breakup.
I tried it once, with my ex. At that time it didn't feel so bad. We didn't even realize when we started it. But now I kinda regret those disgusting words. What a waste of perverted creativity. :|
It only really works if they're any good at it.
I find dirty words that I normally find crass and disgusting tend to turn me on when used in a good context..
and it has to start in some kind of natural way.