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About Allissandra

Some one found me! I cant believe it . we started talking.
Soon after I started having feelings for him which he has already started to love me, and now we moved our conversations from where we met to here! And now we both know we are both meant for one another! Not only just Lovers but as best friends and sole mates! He IS the love of my life!
We Met On Gaia Online, in the beginning month of Sept.of 07 .. Then in the weeks and Months that followed he was in love with me ... But at that time I was not.. Finally at the end of Dec. Just one day before his Birthday I finally told him that I Loved him back !! then immediately on Jan.3rd of 08 he asked me to marry him ( still online ) and I was so very happy:D !!
After that we were inseparable... except one time that was the worst day of my life on February 29th and that lasted till March 3rd. It was the day we actually broke up and I almost lost him!! ... then that day on the first I fought and fought to get him back.. I knew he was the one for me and I was going to get him back if it killed me!! then on March 8th.. we finally met for the first time!! and it was so very wonderful and soon after he met my parents and whole family and we told them that we were getting married hehe they were so dumbfounded and angry that I lied to them, they didn't know what to do!! But they soon accepted him with open arms and made him part of the family Then since then we both have been making trips back and forth from NJ and CT all spring and summer long . But in the beginning of July he finally gave me the ring Ive been wanting and oafishly asked if he would marry me.
After that many ups and down thew the next 2 years of going Back and forth from Ct to NJ and back. was very tough thew those years trying to get to gather. then finally he said lets make a date for the wedding we have 3 weeks :P so we made the date for Oct 4th. was the best date for him , me , and my family. Lets just say his mom didn't wont anything to do or accept the wedding. she don't even believe we are married.
so now today of may 22,2011 6 months after our wedding and we are happy :D very happy.. but at same time sad.. we are both sad. living with my family is very hard . they don't understand us , and we do things different than what they wont. and we have No privacy. so just when we were wondering what to do with no $ and how we can survive in my parents house on s sun porch with no heat , bad electric and no closet.
we now have a way out. his mom has to leave NJ and move to Cal. and with the move comes with a 90% guarantee he would get a job and a choice of 3 jobs that would guarantee we will have place of our own . the catch is i have to stay here.. for a full year to a year and a 1/2 . im sad about it . and i have a form in the life issues about it if you wont to add to it please add. the name is " a move that will will help but hurt "