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Well you can keep track of your period. Look up ovulation online and based on your cycle it will tell you which days are the best days to try on. Also try not to stress too much over it, stress can actually make you miss periods. Just try and enjoy the experience of trying for one, and it will happen sooner or later.

You only ovulate once a month. Each time you ovulate you only have about a 25% chance of getting pregnant. So if you've only been trying for two months, that's practically nothing! You just started! You shouldn't be stressing about it yet. Fertility doctors generally won't even see you unless you have been trying for over a year with no success. And even then, it doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with you, and it certainly doesn't mean you're a failure. Sometimes it just doesn't happen fast, and sometimes it doesn't happen at all without fertility treatment. My partner and I have been trying for two years with no luck. My cousin tried for five years before finally getting pregnant.

So be patient. Track your periods. Chart your temperature. Check your cervical mucus. Make sure you are up to date on pelvic exams. Make sure your doctor knows you are trying so that he or she can make sure you are health enough for pregnancy. Take your prenatal vitamins. A lot of people don't realize you need to take them before you get pregnant, not after you find out that you're pregnant. Have sex every two or three days. If you're having sex twice a day every day, that's actually too much. I know it seems like it would be better to have as much sex as possible, but you actually have a better chance of getting pregnant if the guy takes a couple of days to replenish. Sperm can live inside a woman's body for a few days anyway. And make sure you are doing your research. If you're this bummed about not being pregnant yet, if you are confused as to why it hasn't happened after only two months, and if you've been having sex twice a day every day, then that suggests to me that you're not doing your research. So make sure you look into this stuff. Learn about your cycle, learn about sperm, learn about why you need to take prenatal vitamins, learn about breastfeeding, etc. The more you understand this stuff, the more likely you will be to have a healthy baby.

It also probably wouldn't hurt to talk to a therapist. The therapist can make sure you are mentally and emotionally ready for pregnancy and parenthood. Because, no offense, but based on just that little bit that you wrote it kind of sounds like something you're jumping into this without much knowledge. And if you're feeling like a failure and like your self esteem is being hurt just because it didn't happen immediately, that doesn't really seem healthy to me.