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So yesterday my mom asked me to go to walmart and pick up a prescription, which I was fine with. I told her I had to go to the bank also and she said fine, but no where else because they only had a quarter of a tank. So I did what I said I was going to do. Walmart, bank, home. Later that night they said I could use the car to go to walmart again if I put whatever money I had left into the gas tank, which was $6. I went to walmart, and the gas station; exactly what I said I was going to do. Nothing more, nothing less. I life 5 miles from walmart. THAT DOES NOT USE UP A QUARTER TANK OF GAS ON ANY VEHICLE! Let alone a Kia Van that gets like 25 mpg.
Now my mother is lying, saying that she didn't tell me we had a quarter tank of gas, that we had half. Now the van is apparently empty and it's my fault for using not a quarter of a tank, but half a tank. I just got into a screaming match with my father because he whole heartedly believes that I'm a shitty, lying, daughter. (He's told me this more than once.) And my mother is just sitting there, adding to it all and still lying about what she told me!
I mean, COME ON! I'm almost 21 years old and they're still pulling this shit! I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to handle the stress. The only good thing I have going in my life is my boyfriend. That's it. I'm ready to hurt people.
Now my mother is lying, saying that she didn't tell me we had a quarter tank of gas, that we had half. Now the van is apparently empty and it's my fault for using not a quarter of a tank, but half a tank. I just got into a screaming match with my father because he whole heartedly believes that I'm a shitty, lying, daughter. (He's told me this more than once.) And my mother is just sitting there, adding to it all and still lying about what she told me!
I mean, COME ON! I'm almost 21 years old and they're still pulling this shit! I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to handle the stress. The only good thing I have going in my life is my boyfriend. That's it. I'm ready to hurt people.
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I AM IN THE SAME EXACT POSITION!
except I can't drive yet and my b-day is Feb. 14th. so I turn 21 then. >>
but it is always my Step dad that starts it all.
like, he KNOWS i loves video games and the TV in my room is only like. 18 inches? so the xbox and wii, or whatever else we are playing stay out in the living room.. and they don't mind
but just last weekend my cousin, and 2 of my sis's friends were over and we were all playing Halo..
well, him and my mom come back from werever they were and they walked into the living room to go to thier room to sleep.
he just starts YELLING and telling me 'this shit doesnt belong out here and you know this! do you not listen to a fucking word I EVER SAY?'
and we all sat there speechless.
cuz even everyone else knows that it is always out there.
and mom sat there and agree with him.
and so i yelled back 'you are only yelling at me for it NOW to try to show everyone ' how big of a man you are'' (which he does a LOT when people are over)
him and I have hated each other since the day mom brought him home 12 years ago, and I think he thinks if he stars an arguement with me.. he gains more manhood.. idk
but he NEVER wins ANY arguement... I can go for HOURS on end.. literally.
-Phew-
sorry for that novel
LOL
except I can't drive yet and my b-day is Feb. 14th. so I turn 21 then. >>
but it is always my Step dad that starts it all.
like, he KNOWS i loves video games and the TV in my room is only like. 18 inches? so the xbox and wii, or whatever else we are playing stay out in the living room.. and they don't mind
but just last weekend my cousin, and 2 of my sis's friends were over and we were all playing Halo..
well, him and my mom come back from werever they were and they walked into the living room to go to thier room to sleep.
he just starts YELLING and telling me 'this shit doesnt belong out here and you know this! do you not listen to a fucking word I EVER SAY?'
and we all sat there speechless.
cuz even everyone else knows that it is always out there.
and mom sat there and agree with him.
and so i yelled back 'you are only yelling at me for it NOW to try to show everyone ' how big of a man you are'' (which he does a LOT when people are over)
him and I have hated each other since the day mom brought him home 12 years ago, and I think he thinks if he stars an arguement with me.. he gains more manhood.. idk
but he NEVER wins ANY arguement... I can go for HOURS on end.. literally.
-Phew-
sorry for that novel
LOL
Deadpool, If you are seeing this...MARRY ME.
LMAO
Hahaha, not a problem at all. It feels good to get stuff like that off your chest. :)
Oh god. I had to deal with the same thing.
My mom would lie to turn my whole family against me.
And my stepdad already pretty much hated me, for god knows why.
He's always hated me since I was 9 and he started dating my mom.
How you can genuinely hate a 9 year old is completely unimaginable to me.
But yeah, the only way I was able to get past that, was by moving out.
And even so, my mom calls just to lie about shit she "hears" or
"just knows" I am doing even though I am over 1000 miles away from her.
And she calls my family and spreads these lies to them as well.
It sucks, but there's not much you can do short of leaving home.
My mom would lie to turn my whole family against me.
And my stepdad already pretty much hated me, for god knows why.
He's always hated me since I was 9 and he started dating my mom.
How you can genuinely hate a 9 year old is completely unimaginable to me.
But yeah, the only way I was able to get past that, was by moving out.
And even so, my mom calls just to lie about shit she "hears" or
"just knows" I am doing even though I am over 1000 miles away from her.
And she calls my family and spreads these lies to them as well.
It sucks, but there's not much you can do short of leaving home.
In a trail of fire I know we will be free again,
In the end we will be one.
In a trail of fire I'll burn before you bury me,
Set your sights for the sun.
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it does.
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lol
it does.
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Deadpool, If you are seeing this...MARRY ME.
LMAO
If you're 21, why the hell are you still bothering with people who are making you so miserable and frustrated? I wouldn't.
Can't you see about getting a place with your boyfriend?
Can't you see about getting a place with your boyfriend?
Have you had a sit down talk with just your mom? If you can find out why she did it perhaps there was a good reason. If there wasn't one then you may have to tell her straight up that you wont be able to run her errand anymore. Best bet is to keep calm and level headed during this whole thing so it doesn't spiral into a bigger mess
I would say separate yourself from the situation! Get out. Get a job, save money and get out. Only thing you can do and then when your gone and you can't do those things for them. They will miss you!! <3
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They own my laptop and I need what's on it for school. (Adobe Master collection being one of the things I need) And until March/April this small town won't be hiring people for work, so saving to leave is damn near impossible right now. x.x
You might still put in applications to see if you can't get something. With Valentines Day coming up there might be an opening
What do you mean?
Just because there isn't a Hiring Sign doesn't mean they aren't looking for people. Try the uncommon places too, they may need people to do file work or secretarial jobs. And fancier restaurants sometimes need help on the big date holidays. And of course if you have a walmart there is always hell to consider