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i have had my share of online relationship disasters

It a let down when the person turns out to be a pervert or not what you expect

But i find i am more confident online than in real life

In my first relationship i was unsure of what to do - sex wise. but i can roleplay online and i am unstoppable.

I'm currently looking for an online 'special friend' to chat to, roleplay with (normal and saucy) and who knows what could happen

But i'm looking for someone my own age - which is always a let down.

I am hooked up with a few dating sites - and i just can't seem to find anyone worth looking at.

I'm bi-curious so that gives me a wide range.
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Sat Nov 19, 2011 5:54 am

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
I personally prefer offline relationships to online, roleplaying sex and actually having sex are totally different kettles of fish, and it's no secret what one I prefer. xD

Good luck finding a new partner, if you look hard enough you'll find a few lovely people that might create a spark in you. (:
Post by Stratocaster » Sat Nov 19, 2011 11:49 am
i find i can be myself online because i can hide behind my computer screen. I feel free to be how i really want to be and can't be irl
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Sat Nov 19, 2011 9:32 pm

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
I like either of them... online i feel i can be myself more and in real life im kinda shy so i dont realy exspress myself much... and i agree with the pervert thing... ya never know how old they realy are or anything
Post by marisaiva14 » Thu Nov 24, 2011 2:03 pm



~Are you scared of the Dark~


They each have there good and bad qualities i think. I am a little more outgoing online cause no one can see me. I very rarely even talk to people unless i need to offline. that is just how anitsocial i am. but opening up online has helped me a lot offline.. I am sure you will fine someone that fits your bill.



Post by Alarianna » Fri Nov 25, 2011 2:22 am

i was born anti-social
i felt i could never really be myself irl... but always and more online

true, you can never tell a persons real age online, even if they tell you - but if it is fun... then should it matter?
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Fri Nov 25, 2011 2:36 am

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
I prefer offline relationships as I need the human interaction, although my partner lives over 6 hours away from me so in a way it is like an online relationship, as i did meet him through a mutual friend of oursand we started talking on FB...
it turns out we had a few photos together prior to meeting each other properly xD
We're in the same community so it was easy for us to eet up and such, although we were best friends for almost 6 months before we actually confessed we had feelins of interest towards each other.

I understand the being able to hide behind a computer screen as I have somewhat low self esteem because of people at schools opinions of me, but the more comfortable you become with someone in person if you take out the whole "sex" factor then its alot easier to gain self confidence.

I am moremyself online then if anyone were to meet me in public... I met a few people when I went overseas that I had met online, and sure I was comfortable around them, but not nearly as comfortably as I am when theres a computer screen infront of me.
Post by ~~xxEl3KtRaxx~~ » Fri Nov 25, 2011 2:25 pm


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i am no good with people face to face
which is why i am prone to online stuff
its a lot easier
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Fri Nov 25, 2011 11:40 pm

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
Online relationships are cool and all. I have been in one for over 2 years now. They are easier than RL in the beginning, no responsibilities, full-time privacy, etc. but I can tell you that when things get serious it gets much harder than RL especially if you are too far apart. Not to mention online relationships are still considered taboo in some parts of the world. But if you two really love each other, the hardships will turn sweet and you'll be okay.
Post by Saeyra » Sat Nov 26, 2011 1:34 am

I am non compos mentis.
im not looking for love and nothing serious
its just good fun
its not like i could find someone on here and 'click with them' that lives in same country even the same state.
It would be rare to find that
Its just nice to be able to come online after a hard day and have that one person to chat to
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Sat Nov 26, 2011 2:14 am

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
I haven't had any relationship, let alone an online one.
But if I do ever decide to have one, I'd rather have an offline one. I know online relationships have their advantages and all, but I don't trust them, especially after what I've seen and heard from a friend.

But... um, what is your issue? oO From what it seems to me, you don't seem to be looking for advice on whether or not you should have an online relationship?
Post by Edea Sorceress » Sat Nov 26, 2011 5:53 am


The fox who longed for grapes, beholds with pain
The tempting clusters were too high to gain;
Grieved in his heart he forced a careless smile,
And cried ,‘They’re sharp and hardly worth my while.’

Aphra Behn
i'm trying to convince myself that as easy as it is to have an online relationship...

after everything i have been through because of online relationships

that i should look for an online relationship
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Sat Nov 26, 2011 5:56 am

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
I've never had an online relationship before so I guess I cant say which I would prefer. Though I cant imagine an online one being as fulfilling as a irl one. Maybe its one of those things I shouldn't knock until I try though? lol
Post by Twisty » Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:48 pm


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i know the pros and cons of an online relationship

and the pros and cons of a IRL relationship

and to be honest i wish i could combine them
Post by Mystik-Rose86 » Sat Nov 26, 2011 10:07 pm

Trying to save GOLD!!

35,940g/60,000g
Haha to have the best of both worlds? That would be nice.
xP
Post by Twisty » Sat Nov 26, 2011 11:11 pm


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