venomothballs wrote:calling it an "old-fashioned sentiment" trivializes the issue and makes it seem softer than it is
you're right, it's not just white people who think badly of mixed-race couples
that doesn't make it any less wrong
and who do you think started that way of thinking in the first place?
of course some PoC are going to think that way, because historically, white people have told them that that's the """correct""" way
you say it's only racism if they are making generalizations about other races
but that's exactly what they're doing
besides that, you're far over simplifying racism
racism is not just "resenting people of other colors"
and there are no, absolutely no legitimate reasons to believe in racial purity (white supremacy) that aren't inherently racist
it is a big deal that people think that way, they are making undeserving people feel like shit just because the person they fell in love with happened to have different physical characteristics, namely skin tone
that's like saying it's okay to be one of those "God Hates Fags" kind of people because it's just words right? words don't hurt, right?
you can have an opinion, and that opinion may very well be a bigoted one
White people didn't invent the concept of "racial purity"--but either way, whether or not any individual race "started it" is completely irrelevant. And trying to pin the issue on whites when it's existed among people of all races for as long as people have been around seems pretty racist in itself. Racial purity and white supremacy aren't synonymous, especially in the current context.
Like I said, the idea of not mixing races is nothing new and doesn't equal having something against people of other races or even against mixed-race individuals. In fact, it doesn't necessarily mean that a person will take issue with mixed-race couples on an individual level--same as thinking homosexuality is wrong doesn't equal having a problem with homosexual people. It really isn't as huge a deal as it's being made out to be, and paying attention to the differences in certain types of thinking is pretty important. When you start generalizing everyone with different views, you wind up blowing things out of proportion and making people out to be something they're not. That isn't to say that there aren't plenty of people out there who believe races shouldn't mix and also have a lot of negative attitudes toward other races, but you can't jump to that kind of conclusion without fully knowing the person's views.
When I say that having an opinion and being rude about it are two different things, I mean exactly that. Being rude about an opinion would mean expressing it in a way that would harm/upset another person. Simply holding a view and not using it to insult another individual or as an excuse for infringing on his rights in some way should not be an issue. That doesn't mean that people shouldn't be educated about things, but there is a big difference between being stuck on a particular belief and shoving it into other people's faces.
Whether we like it or not, there will always be someone out there who disagrees with us--be it for what we do, what we like, or just who and what we are. Knowing that those people are out there is just a part of life and I am not going to be miserable all the time just because such people exist. As long as they aren't bothering me, I'm not going to care.