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I feel like all the threads in this forum (that I posted in today) are about cheating lol.
No, I dont think its an excuse and even if someone was cheating because they were drunk I would still leave their ass.
No, I dont think its an excuse and even if someone was cheating because they were drunk I would still leave their ass.
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Flying Frogs wrote:lateralus es helica wrote:Delilah wrote:Never.
I mean it's hard to forget everything.
I think it's not possible for you to be that wasted and cheat.
What you mean blackouts? Oh they're possible. I've had days when I was in my teens/early twenties and had spent all night drinking only to wake up and have no clue what happened to my pants, more or less what happened. Then I hear stories of running around knocking on my neighbor's doors to announce I don't have sex with fat chicks at 3 in the morning.
Not saying that being drunk is an excuse, but disputing that you remember everything clearly and think clearly while drinking. That only happens if you get lightly buzzed. If you get hammered, chances are you'll hear more about what happened from witnesses than you'll remember doing and it'll be pretty off the wall stuff.
Someone mentioned you shouldn't be getting trashed like that when not around your significant other and that's true. Actually truth be told you shouldn't get trashed period, but people will do what people will do and either learn the hard way or not at all.
But...getting that drunk is still not a legitimate excuse. You shouldn't get that drunk to begin with.
I said that. ; )
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There was one instance where I got drunk and I was hanging out with some friends and 2 of them took advantage of me and I know that I was helpless to stop them both. One of them had 100 lbs. on me and it was 2 against 1, but I felt guilty because I put myself into the sitaution. I trusted them and I was wrong to do that.
I told my former boyfriend about it the next day and he was understanding, but he told me that I needed help for my drinking problem.
So... no, I don't think it's a valid excuse...
I told my former boyfriend about it the next day and he was understanding, but he told me that I needed help for my drinking problem.
So... no, I don't think it's a valid excuse...
Cheating, regardless of intoxication, is absolutely unacceptable. My ex's excuse was that he was drunk, but either way, he still wanted to have sex with somebody else.
The way I see it, you want what you want. If you go after what you want (and increased alcohol intake will probably assist in this), great. But if it's not me that you want, don't be in a relationship with me.
The way I see it, you want what you want. If you go after what you want (and increased alcohol intake will probably assist in this), great. But if it's not me that you want, don't be in a relationship with me.
I totally agree, you know what you are getting into when you drink.
That is definitely not an excuse, at all.
That is definitely not an excuse, at all.
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People want to blame drinking/drugging on their impaired judgement I believe you need to be in control of yourself at all times. If you are going to drink make sure it is with your mate. I can think of very few instances when you could say well, I understand. Its up to the other mate to decide whether to forgive or not, but honestly I would be so hurt I could never trust the person again.
Unless you were LEGITIMATELY raped, being drunk isn't an excuse.
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I can't think of a single circumstance where being drunk is a valid excuse for cheating.
I love how black and white everyone in here thinks it is.
It really depends on the situation, if they honestly loved you that much then they shouldn't be out getting pissed and eyeing up strangers in the first place but if you're an amorous drunk (like I am) and you don't have someone to relay that love on (and I'm talking kissing, not screwing.) you get frustrated and upset.
Tbf the way I deal with it is kissing my friend/friend's girlfriend because he encourages it. Dirty perv.
But I'm not in a relationship either.
It really depends on the situation, if they honestly loved you that much then they shouldn't be out getting pissed and eyeing up strangers in the first place but if you're an amorous drunk (like I am) and you don't have someone to relay that love on (and I'm talking kissing, not screwing.) you get frustrated and upset.
Tbf the way I deal with it is kissing my friend/friend's girlfriend because he encourages it. Dirty perv.
But I'm not in a relationship either.
