I don't see the problem with asking for certain items/features.
If they are too much work for Emy and her staff, then she may decide not to do it or maybe even think about doing it for a later date.
Think back to the marketplace: a lot of users were asking for the marketplace, but Emy decided that we didn't need one right now.
But now, there is a marketplace underway, at least I hope that was in an announcement and I didn't dream it xD
I think the fact that Emy listens to what we want and takes everything into consideration says a lot for this site; she cares about the wants and needs of her users.
Most avatar sites wouldn't listen to us, and I think that shows that they don't overly care about their online community.